He fought with insurance on speakerphone, pacing the kitchen.
I whimpered.
“I know,” he whispered. “I got you, kiddo.”
He built a plywood ramp so my wheelchair could clear the front door. It wasn’t pretty, but it worked.
He fought with insurance on speakerphone, pacing the kitchen.
“No, she can’t ‘make do’ without a shower chair,” he said. “You want to tell her that yourself?”
They didn’t.
He took me to the park.
Our neighbor, Mrs. Patel, started bringing casseroles and hovering.
“She needs friends,” she told him.
“She needs not to break her neck on your stairs,” he grumbled, but later he pushed me around the block and introduced me to every kid like I was his VIP.
He took me to the park.
Kids stared. Parents glanced away.
My first real friend.
A girl my age walked up and asked, “Why can’t you walk?”
I froze.
Ray crouched beside me. “Her legs don’t listen to her brain. But she can beat you at cards.”
The girl grinned. “No, she can’t.”
That was Zoe. My first real friend.
It looked terrible.
Ray did that a lot. Put himself in front of the awkward and made it less sharp. When I was ten, I found a chair in the garage with yarn taped to the back, half braided.
“What’s this?” I asked.
“Nothing. Don’t touch it.”
That night, Ray sat on my bed behind me, hands shaking.
“Hold still,” he muttered, trying to braid my hair.
It looked terrible. I thought my heart would explode.
“Those girls talk very fast.”
When puberty hit, he came into my room with a plastic bag and a red face.
“I bought… stuff,” he said, staring at the ceiling. “For when things happen.”
Pads, deodorant, cheap mascara.
“You watched YouTube,” I said.
He grimaced. “Those girls talk very fast.”
“You hear me? You’re not less.”
We didn’t have much money, but I never felt like a burden. He washed my hair in the kitchen sink, one hand under my neck, the other pouring water.
“It’s okay,” he’d murmur. “I got you.”
When I cried because I’d never dance or just stand in a crowd, he’d sit on my bed, jaw tight.
“You’re not less. You hear me? You’re not less.”
By my teens, it was clear there’d be no miracle.
Ray made that room a world.
I could sit with support. Use my chair for a few hours. Most of my life happened in my room.
Ray made that room a world. Shelves at my reach. A janky tablet stand he welded in the garage. For my twenty-first, he built a planter box by the window and filled it with herbs.
“So you can grow that basil you yell at on the cooking shows,” he said.
I burst into tears.
Then Ray started getting tired.
“Jesus, Hannah,” Ray panicked. “You hate basil?”
“It’s perfect,” I sobbed.
He looked away. “Yeah, well. Try not to kill it.”
Then Ray started getting tired.
At first, he just moved slower.
He’d sit halfway up the stairs to catch his breath. Forget his keys. Burn dinner twice in a week.
Between her nagging and my begging, he went.
“I’m fine,” he said. “Getting old.”
He was 53.
Mrs. Patel cornered him in the driveway.
“You see a doctor,” she ordered. “Don’t be stupid.”
Between her nagging and my begging, he went.
After the tests, he sat at the kitchen table, papers under his hand.
“Stage four. It’s everywhere.”
“What did they say?” I asked.
He stared past me. “Stage four. It’s everywhere.”
“How long?” I whispered.
He shrugged. “They said numbers. I stopped listening.”
He tried to keep things the same.
He still made my eggs, even when his hand shook. He still brushed my hair, though sometimes he had to stop and lean on the dresser, breathing hard.
Hospice came.
At night, I heard him retching in the bathroom, then running the faucet.
Hospice came.
A nurse named Jamie set up a bed in the living room. Machines hummed. Medication charts went on the fridge.
The night before he died, he told everyone to leave.
“Even me?” Jamie asked.
“You know you’re the best thing that ever happened to me, right?”
“Yeah,” he said. “Even you.”
He shuffled into my room and eased into the chair by my bed.
“Hey, kiddo,” he said.
“Hey,” I said, already crying.
He took my hand. “You know you’re the best thing that ever happened to me, right?”
“That’s kind of sad,” I joked weakly.
“You’re gonna live.”
He huffed a laugh. “Still true.”
“I don’t know what to do without you,” I whispered.
His eyes went shiny. “You’re gonna live. You hear me? You’re gonna live.”
“I’m scared.”
“I know,” he said. “Me too.”
“For things I should’ve told you.”
He opened his mouth like he wanted to say more, then just shook his head.
“I’m sorry,” he said quietly.
